1 Timothy 1:21 – I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people—
Stop and think for a moment… when you pray, who are your prayers focused on? If I’m being honest, my prayers are heavily filled with prayers concerning myself, my wife, my children, and those who are close to me. Simply put, my prayers are very selfish or self-centered sometimes. Although I think what we pray for most reveals what (or who) is most important in our life, I think consistently selfish prayers can become robotic and cold.
I’ve asked the question before as I’ve taught: are you praying about it as much as your talking about it? In some circles one may even have to ask… are people praying about it as much as they are complaining about it, gossiping about it, or being hurt about it? Jesus says: “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21) and I think this same premise might be applied to our prayer life to discover what’s really most important to us.
Are you like me? Sometimes can you be selfish in prayer? In today’s focal Scripture Paul urges us to pray for “all people”. There is a very real call for the people of God to go before Him and lift up others selflessly as we seek God’s intervention in the lives and affairs of mankind. I’ve said throughout this devotional series that prayer is not intended to change God’s heart; it is intended to change ours. While I wholeheartedly embrace that truth, I know that our prayers are precious to God and I do believe God moves powerfully to meet the needs and requests of His children. Knowing this, avoid the temptation to believe that when God’s will isn’t a “yes” answer to our prayers that our prayers didn’t matter, they still do.
It can be difficult to pray for those we don’t like or those we don’t agree with. Often I find this most evident in the polarized world of politics. I wonder how different some of our leaders may be if we united in prayer for them and consistently asked for God’s wisdom for them. Often we allow our dislike of someone to cut off any chance of praying for them. I wonder, what if that person you don’t really like who causes your life to be more difficult desperately needs your prayers? What if you are the only person praying for them? The husband you think will never change, what if God’s heart is moved to change him through your loving prayers? Remember: the prayers of a Christian in communion with God are powerful and effective (James 5:16).
Today as you begin to pray, I challenge you to ask God: Lord, who do you want me to pray for? Ask Him to put a face or name on your mind and then lift that person up to Him in prayer. You don’t have to know all the details, they may not have even asked for prayer, pray anyway. Ask God to show you how selfish your prayer life may have been up to this point and begin seeking His help to be a selfless servant, even in prayer. Don’t stop lifting up your own needs to God, simply begin making time to lift up others too.
Father, today we come seeking your grace and mercy in Jesus name. Lord we confess that sometimes our prayers can selfish and self-centered. Lord, help us to lift others, even those we may not like, up to you in prayer. Lord help us realize that prayer is intended to change our hearts, not Yours. Lord help us to know your heart concerning prayer and begin to understand the power of this conversation. Put someone on our heart right now that we need to pray for Lord. Help us to make time to pray for others and consistently seek Your will for their lives too. Thank you for hearing our prayers and we are so thankful You hear us, in Jesus’ name we pray, amen.